Let’s be real.
If you’re reading this, you probably have five tabs open, twenty unread DMs, a half-written Instagram caption, and a vague sense of dread about everything you haven’t done today.
You’re not unmotivated. You’re emotionally drained and overstimulated.
And to top it off, you’re glued to a tiny screen that never stops demanding your attention.
So how do you manage your time when your brain feels like a fried motherboard and your life runs on notifications?
Let’s talk about what actually works when you’re not just busy, but bone-deep tired and mentally maxed out.
1. Give Up the Fantasy of Perfect Productivity
You’re not broken. You’re not lazy. You’re exhausted, and the normal rules don’t apply here.
Stop trying to manage your time like a corporate robot with a personal assistant and zero emotional needs.
Start with this:
- Give yourself permission to work at 60% and still be proud
- Build in recovery time after every push
- Don’t punish yourself for needing rest. That’s biology, not weakness
2. Block Time Around Your Energy, Not Your Ego
You don’t need a Pinterest-worthy planner. You need a plan that actually fits your life.
Try this:
- Mornings for high-output work like writing, content, creative thinking
- Afternoons for admin tasks like emails or editing
- Evenings for real rest, not revenge scrolling
You’re allowed to plan your schedule around how you actually function, not how you wish you functioned.
3. Be Online with Boundaries
If your job depends on social media, you don’t need to quit the apps. You just need rules.
Set your own:
- Create in batches so you’re not constantly switching gears
- Use a 15-minute timer for scroll breaks so you don’t lose hours
- Post and walk away. You are not your engagement rate
4. Pick Three Priorities a Day. No More.
Stop setting yourself up to fail with a list that looks like a CVS receipt.
Focus on the Power 3:
- One high-impact task that moves the needle
- One maintenance task to keep the lights on
- One personal priority like therapy, groceries, or sitting in silence
Done is better than perfect. Three things are better than thirty.
5. Rest Isn’t a Reward. It’s a Requirement.
You’re not managing time. You’re managing your nervous system.
That means factoring in quiet moments, movement, joy, and breaks that aren’t just collapsing on the couch after a 10-hour day.
Try this:
- Take a walk instead of forcing another hour of work
- Eat something with protein. Drink water. Breathe deeply
- Do something that makes you laugh or reminds you who you are outside of your business
You’re Allowed to Slow Down and Still Succeed
You don’t need to earn your rest. You don’t need to go viral to be valuable.
If you’re tired, it’s because you’ve been carrying too much alone. That ends here.
Time management for the emotionally exhausted isn’t about doing more.
It’s about honoring your capacity, protecting your peace, and getting clear on what actually matters.
You’ve got this. Go get some sunlight and knock out one thing that matters today.
Caitlin Thomas is the Founder of Beyond Boss, a professional photographer, and a mama of two. She is passionate about helping other women make more time for living and enjoying life, without sacrificing their dreams and ambitions.
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